Here's an interesting thought
It has been said that...
When a child leads the way in commitment to a church, 3 1/2 % of families follow.
What's the Disconnect?
Most local churches have been operating with an event-based strategy in their ministries for men. Most have approached and tried to reach men through breakfasts, work projects, retreats, golf outings, and stadium events. All of these can be important for ministry, but in themselves, they are not discipleship.
Men today are hurting. Most men are struggling to balance career, marriage, family, church, and community responsibilities. They live with confusing messages that do not support authentic biblical manhood. Many are living a life of conventional manhood that settles for less.
Jesus said to "go and make disciples" and yet we continue to make workers. We ask men to do when we should ask men to be. That strategy lasts for a little while, but Jesus was right. In order to get workers (doers of the Word), we need to disciple men (to be followers).